‘Diplomat lover showers my wife with gifts’

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Judge Mallet; Hammer
Judge Mallet; Hammer

A WOMAN of Lusaka’s Matero township has been dragged to court by her husband after being caught having sex with her lover in their home.
John Phiri, 36, said despite being caught, his wife Angela Phiri, 30, has continued the relationship with her lover who showers her with gifts such as jewellery. He said Angela’s lover also gives her money and has also bought her an I-Phone 6.
John told Matero Local Court magistrates Lewis Mumba and Pauline Newa that problems in their marriage started when she enrolled for college.
John has sued his wife Angela, who he married in 2008 although no bride price was paid, for divorce. They have no children together.
“She can afford all these luxuries because her lover is a diplomat. She brings him into our home telling our neighbours that the man is my nephew. My wife tells her mates from college that she is single,” he said.
John complained that Angela no longer behaves like a married woman but more like a prostitute.
“I am now a laughing stock in my community because of her behaviour. I am fed up. There is no intimacy between us because she also denies me my conjugal rights. She threatens to squeeze my private parts when I try to make advances in bed,” he said.
But Angela told the court that her husband is a jealous man who constantly monitors her movements.
“He tells me that he no longer finds me sexually appealing that’s why I seek attention elsewhere from my friends,” she said.
The court granted divorce and ordered John to pay Angela K10, 000 as compensation with an initial instalment of K3,000 starting January month-end.

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62 COMMENTS

  2. Hope her husband never cheated as well, because nowadays even women have learnt to cheat. Men defended themselves to say “ubucende bwamwaume tabonaula ing’anda.

  8. Dont Talk About Things U Hve Never Xprienced It’s Better Jst To Read The Story And Hope It Happen To U

  9. Builtful one we share,urgly one we marry. I cant take ma wife kucollage kwati nimpena, its better her to be a goalkeeper @home. palast kulakulila.

  10. Ba John Phiri,i know it is painful but just divorce this woman and go on with your life.It is going to be hard on the children,i suppose you have.But it will be worse exposing them to such.Believe me even if you had bought an i phone for her she would have lusted for something else.Eventually she was going to expect you to get her a rolls royce or a maybach.You can’t win against such!!!

  11. My man make sure you drag the man(culprit) to court so that you are paid then after that you can decide what to do…

  12. Mr Elemiah mwanza.. Sorry to say this to u but ur comment is not necessary… I expect someone at ur age to speak wisely…read my comment and tell me what is wrong with it…u ar supposed to show good examples unlike the ugly one u have just given…we ar commenting on a story in the news n not on my character….

  13. U see my brother mr lubinda malumo u should have asked before saying anything…am not married and I don’t even know this woman….like I said don’t respond to my opinion but comment on the story in the paper…..I didn’t see anywhere written Gloria or maybe u don’t have eyes…

  15. u wud hv jst stabed Dem to death after u caught Dem..never scort free such demonic pipo.

  16. i now understand why many ladies who are married have not been taken to colleges by their husbands.

  20. Kutiwafilwa Nokuupa Palast With Issues Of Infidelity I Personally Feel Ladies Are Naturally Unsatisfied.

  21. Zambian Courtz sivintu,Women are award for doing wrong WoW,ba Court Uyu Mukadzi Ana Nyengesela Mu nyumba and U award her kikikikik this is shit

  22. @Dingiswayo Clements Khuzwa Mphanza….if u have read my comment nicely, u will realise one thing…I don’t take sides..I say it as it is….in this story, the Lady is not all to blame but the man too for failing to give her what she sought in the other man…its like u go to slip leaving ur door open and then blame the thief for entering ur home instead of ur self for leaving the door open…..

    • WAT IF THE MAN CANT AFFORD AN i FON 6 WICH A WOMAN WANTS N DOES NOT NID BUT CAN AFFORD A BASIC FON DOES IT MEAN SHE HAS TO OPEN HER LEGS FOR SOMEONE ELSE WHO JST PROVIDES IN INTERVALS YET MAYB THE MAN PROVIDES DAY IN N DAY OUT

  23. 1 Corinthians Chapter 6 – Advices us to turn away from such people. Watch from a distance and see how she will be greately disappointed by this same man. No man finds exquisite delight in a used woman, its only for a little while.

  24. Wat more was a man expected to provide for her? I assume she started school at the expense of her husband ,more so, the foolish men who go out with married women re also stupid

  30. materialistic whole she is! damp her b4 she exchanges your magic stick with an I-phone 7!

  31. Just an I-phone6 nd jewellery? We’re living in a world where people have become sophisticated with rampart moral decay.

  33. In Zambia this behaviour is widely common seems like women in ZED does not satisfied with their men mayb in bed where men does not perform their Manly job well, so i ask you men plz give women the love they deserve to avoid this

  36. He Should Even Be Thankful Coz He Bought An I Phone Which You Failed To Provide As A Husband,,,by The Way,thats Wat Happens Wen You Start Thinking Yo Woman Is Finished

  41. “he who plants corn by the roadside and he who marries a beautiful girl have one thing in common……….”

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