I married her for sex first and love later – Husband

A WOMAN of Lusaka’s George Township shocked a fully-packed Matero local court with an unusual revelation of how her husband demanded sex everyday even when she was on her periods.
Jacqueline Kalenga, 42, further astonished the court when she revealed that in their 19-year-long marriage, her husband even demanded sex when she was in labour with her last born child – a situation that led to her giving birth in the house.
Ms Kalenga narrated that she once fainted when her husband had weird anal sex with her since the pain was unbearable.
“This man will kill me with sex; he does not get tired, even when I am fully pregnant he demands for sex,” she said.

The woman has since sued her husband, George Nyekesha, 46, for divorce saying that he is a sex maniac.
Shockingly, Nyekesha accepted all allegations levelled against him and testified that sex to him was the major reason he married Ms Kalenga.
He said he had a right to make love to his wife whenever he deemed it fit even when she was on her monthly periods or in labour.
“I can make love to my wife in which ever manner I want because I married her for sex first and love later,” he said.
Ms Kalenga said it was clear that her husband needed a younger woman who would give him all the weird sex styles because she was old and not strong enough to sustain the pressure.
The two got married in 1996 when the sexual abuse started and that he never used to provide for her and the five children they had.
“The only thing that my husband knows to do best is sex, because he does not even support me financially,” she said.
Magistrate Lewis Mumba, sitting with Pauline Newa, granted the two divorce and ordered Nyekesha to compensate his wife with K15,000.
The custody of their three children was given to Kalenga and Nyekesha was ordered to be maintaining them with K250.
The court further advised Nyekesha to stop behaving like an animal because it was inhuman for a normal person to behave like that.

Times of Zambia